"There is a theory which states that if ever anyone discovers exactly what the Universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable.There is another theory which states that this has already happened."
~Douglas Adams
I'm certain it's happened. If I'm the universe, I figured out why and then the inexplicable. The powder dried and the ammunition is eliminated and separation accomplished. I'm now a desert tortoise and I'm permitted conjugal visits. I've resolved my difference with making world changes and I still think of Mom when Heart of My Heart plays in my head while tugging on the cardioglide. Finding the one whom you love like you love Mom is what replaced the sex addict era, excuse me while I adjust this foam filled cushion now that the sun's peeking through. It replaced the meaning of holistic from filling holes to making the whole thing work.
There are things to be done, you're there, do what you can't do from here, the girls are there if you're scared. Don't hit the road until wanting to get home is bigger than thinking a few more days could narrow the list
Help the one you love by absorbing the wants. Makes the "as long as needed" ring as the truth.